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Is everyone equally welcomed?
Clean or dirty? Smelling of
booze or not?
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Is the Group frightened by the
newly sober?
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Will the new person be bombarded
with misinformation? "There
are two things that kill alcoholics - liquor and misinformation in AA"
[Wino Joe L.]
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Is the message "sit around
and wait for the miracle?" Or is it TAKE ACTION and help others to TAKE
ACTION?
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Is the PROBLEM made abundantly
clear? Does the Group ensure that
the new member is informed in detail about the EXACT NATURE of alcoholism?
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Does the Group have an adequate
cross-section of alcoholics with which the newcomer can identify?
Are there deliberate attempts to make identification with the new
prospect?
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Do cliques in the Group tend to
create a social maze for the new person to crawl through?
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Is the SOLUTION for the PROBLEM
made abundantly clear? Do the
members show by example the necessity and value for intense and frequent Step
Work?
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Is the promise of a Spiritual
Experience ever-present in the Group?
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Do we pray together?
Do we help the new member with his fear of prayer?
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Is there a genuine warm feeling
of love and support?
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Is open, deep and honest sharing
promoted as a healing tool?
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Do we have an adequate supply of
willing sponsors who have a working knowledge of the Big Book?
Does the Group actively promote sponsorship?
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For the person coming back to
sobriety for the 2nd, 3rd or xth time, will the atmosphere be fresh and full of
promise? Is there an attempt made
to determine exactly what was done and not done in previous attempts?
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Is the Group full of "frothy
emotional appeal" or does its "message have depth and weight"?
Is it RELIEF based or RECOVERY based?
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Does the Group welcome family and
friends into its activities?
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Is the Group creating traditions
distinct and recognizable as its own?
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Does the Group hold its members
accountable?
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Is there a "critical
mass" of willingness and recovery?
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Does the Group know how to cry?
To laugh?
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